Everyone wants to feel like they can trust people right?... I find it terribly difficult now-a-days. You hear so much words but always question if they're true or not. You hear the words "You can trust me" but always question if they really have the decency to back it up.
Can you trust them with things that you tell them?
Can you trust them with things that you wish for no one else to know?
Can you trust them with not only information, but to have a piece of you so fragile that it can get hurt if the trust is broken?
I don't trust very well. Which sucks because the people that are willing to be there for you through anything and want you to feel like you can trust them whole heartedly are the ones that will be left in the dark. They want to help, they want you to feel comfortable around them and want you to share things with them, not for the fact that they are trying to be nosey, but just that they care.
Have been burned one to many times puts a shit ton of barriers up. The Trust Wall if you will. If you've contributed to the reason why that wall is there in the first place, I'm not saying that you can't help tear it down. You just have a long way to go.
Rebuilding trust takes a lot and most times people will say "fuck off" depending on the severity of what and how the trust was broken in the first place. You can't blame anyone for their decision to not let anyone back into their lives because of it.
Based on previous experiences I've learned. I don't need those kinds of people in my life, no one does. Unless you do the same thing to others, then by all means, y'all can stick together.
