If you ever think about all your insecurities and think someone won't like you for it, just know that that person probably has, not the same, but just as much as you do. They think the same things, they have the same hang-ups. It's just a matter of letting them go and telling yourself that you are unique and someone out there is perfect for you. All those insecurities that you had fades so fast they are no longer called insecurities but simply unique traits that you learn to be comfortable with.
When you find someone that will accept you for the person that you are. They have the same views as you. Likes the same things as you. Has the same life goals as you. Don't let them go. Waaaaait! unless they are already in a relationship... in that case sorry, you're shit out of luck... don't be a homewrecker... it's not appealing. lol.
For example I have the biggest insecurities about how my body looks without clothes on. It's not a pretty sight, fo reals. But that's normal for any girl. They will find anything wrong with them and dwell on the imperfection no matter how small others see that it is. And it's not just with us bigger girls, we all have in our heads that the skinny girls have it easy. They don't. I have a friend who is so skinny and just can't seem to gain weight
it's a problem for her when she goes to buy clothes she likes because they are all too big for her. She eats
like normal too... not like a rabbit nibbling on lettuce. Shes a
sweetheart. I don't feel bad for her because she has a pretty face so
she'll survive. kidding....Now the ones that are clearly skinny and have the balls to ask a bigger girl "do you think I look fat" needs to rethink who she should be asking for an honest opinion. Sometimes I'll be a cunt and just say "yes, you do" and then there are the times I'm feeling nice and I'm like "noooo" resisting my urge to fly a cheeseburger in her face... sooo kidding, I would never waste a cheeseburger like that. Don't get me wrong it's not jealousy one bit, it's more of me being blow away by the audacity that they just displayed. They didn't say it to rub it in and be mean, It just comes out and when you've lived your life smaller, and then you start to gain weight you will feel fat and they don't realize that asking a bigger girl for their "do I look fat" opinion is in poor taste whether it's your BFF (I can't believe I just used that fuckin term) or just someone you know.
I watch a lot of porn... WAIT!!! not A LOT... the average amount, oh who am I kidding it's a lot, anyways... so the bodies you see on those are always perfect. And then you tend to compare and see why don't my body look like that... I need a boob job, I need lypo, I need to get my asshole bleached.
Um I just realized that I could have just talked about Sports Illustrated Swimsuit Edition or Cosmo, something less perverted then porn... /sigh fail. hehe. But it wouldn't be a Skully post without the TMI thrown in there remember.
I found this following statistic from 2010. I couldn't find an updated one. but one posted in 2004 was also the same except for height, it was an inch shorter. So yay for women getting taller!!!!
The average height and weight of women varies around the world, but in
the United States the average adult female height was 63.8
inches -- approximately 5-foot-4 -- and 166.2 pounds, according to the
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
